Your wedding day is one of the most meaningful moments in your life, and your ceremony should be just as special. Whether you envision something heartfelt, lighthearted, or deeply personal, I’ll help craft a ceremony that reflects your unique relationship.
You have the freedom to shape your day your way – free from rigid rules or expectations. Behind the scenes, you’ll have someone calm, organised, and experienced guiding the process. I bring ideas, structure, and a steady hand to help everything flow smoothly so you can relax and enjoy the moment.
Your wedding ceremony should feel like you – honest, meaningful, and a true reflection of your relationship. I’ll work alongside you to create something personal and genuine, with just the right tone for your day.
With more than 100 ceremonies under my belt, I bring a solid foundation of knowledge, practical support, and a calm presence to every ceremony. I’ll guide you through the process with clear advice, helpful tips, and thoughtful suggestions – saving you time, stress and uncertainty along the way.
This isn’t just about the ceremony itself – it’s a full service to support you both in the lead-up to your wedding and on the day.
A no-obligation first meeting to talk through your plans
Follow-up meetings to design your ceremony together
Unlimited contact by phone or email
A fully personalised ceremony script tailored to you as a couple
Help with writing your vows (if you’d like support)
Suggestions for readings, rituals or symbolic elements
A rehearsal to help everything run smoothly on the day
Lodgement of legal paperwork with Births, Deaths and Marriages
Travel within Hawke’s Bay (reasonable distance included)*
Carefully crafted, thoughtfully delivered – a ceremony that feels natural and true to you.
Alongside creating and delivering your ceremony, I also offer extra support services to help your wedding day run smoothly. These can be tailored to suit your plans, and pricing will vary depending on your needs and the scale of your event. Please get in touch to discuss.
If your wedding involves a lot of moving parts - perhaps you're working with multiple vendors, using a DIY or BYO venue, or hosting everything at home - having someone behind the scenes to manage the flow of the day can make a world of difference.
An on-the-day coordinator steps in so you don’t have to worry about logistics or timing, and your friends and whānau can just relax and enjoy the celebration.
Oversee the setup of your ceremony and/or reception spaces
Coordinate arrival of bridal parties and ensure everyone feels ready
Make sure styling and decorations are just right
Keep the day running smoothly and to time
Troubleshoot any unexpected issues
Liaise with your vendors and venue contact
Be the go-to person for guests, family and vendors on the day
Being the MC for a wedding is a big responsibility - it requires confidence, clarity, warmth, humour, and the ability to keep things on track while entertaining a crowd.
While it’s lovely to involve a friend or family member in this role, they may not get the chance to fully enjoy the day. If you’d prefer a professional MC to keep things flowing while creating a fun, relaxed vibe, I’d be happy to step in.
Transitioning guests after the ceremony and guiding them through the afternoon
Announcements about food, drinks, facilities and photo sessions
Assisting the photographer with group shots
Icebreaker games while the bridal party is away (on request)
Announcing the bridal party's grand entrance
Outlining the reception timeline and any important details
Introducing speakers (with a fun fact or light-hearted story, if you like)
Coordinating dinner, dessert, or buffet service
Running games like the Shoe Game after dinner (on request)
Announcing the cake cutting and first dance
Life is full of moments worth pausing for – not just weddings and farewells. As a celebrant, I’m here to help you mark those times in a way that feels meaningful, personal, and true to you.
Here are some of the other ceremonies I offer:
A chance to reflect on your journey and celebrate the commitment you've shared – whether it’s a milestone anniversary or simply a meaningful time to say “I still do.”
A beautiful way to honour your relationship without the legal side. Together we’ll create a ceremony that celebrates your love in the way that feels right for you.
Celebrate the birth or adoption of a child and welcome them into the family and community.
A ceremony or symbolic moment to recognise and honour a new family unit – acknowledging children and step-parents as part of the love story.
A ceremony to acknowledge, honour, and affirm identity – whether that’s marking a name change, coming out, or stepping fully into who you are.
Heartfelt goodbyes or blessings for beloved pets, often requested by families or individuals with strong connections to animals.
Create a sense of grounding and welcome in your new home – whether you’re moving in, starting again, or letting go of the past.
Retirement, divorce, a big birthday, a fresh start – whatever the change, I can shape a ceremony to help you mark the moment with intention.
Contact nikiovenden@gmail.com to get more information and ideas for your ceremony.