As your funeral celebrant, I’m here to help you honour your loved one’s life in a way that feels right for you and your whānau.
Most families I work with aren’t after a traditional or religious service - they just want something real, heartfelt, and respectful. Together, we’ll create a ceremony that reflects your loved one’s personality, values, and the stories that made them who they were.
I’ll listen carefully and help draw out the memories that matter most — the funny moments, the quiet strengths, the quirks and qualities that made them who they were. I’ll guide you through your options, help with wording and structure, and help shape a ceremony that feels right.
My approach is warm, kind, and relaxed - but also organised and thoughtful. I consider it an honour to support families in creating ceremonies that reflect their loved one’s life, values, and legacy - and to help bring comfort to all who gather to remember them.
Facing death is never easy; it's a topic many of us shy away from. Often, our loved ones are left uncertain about our final wishes, making an already challenging time even more difficult. Planning a loved one’s funeral is not only emotionally taxing but can also be overwhelming and confusing. Without clear instructions, your loved ones may worry about getting it right and honouring your life as you would have wanted.
Taking control of planning your own funeral ceremony provides peace of mind for you and alleviates the pressure on your loved ones during their time of grief. This proactive approach allows you to design a funeral that genuinely reflects your personality and values. You have the freedom to include every element that is important to you, from poems and readings to music and speeches, ensuring that your final messages are delivered by the people you choose.
This process goes beyond conventional elements; it offers an opportunity to embed your life story into the ceremony, ensuring that the journey of your life is shared with sincerity and authenticity. Whether you want a specific theme that captures your passions or wish to include humour to bring light amidst the sorrow, you have the power to create a farewell that truly represents the vibrant individual you are.
Planning your own funeral transforms it into a celebration of a life well-lived. It's a personalised expression that brings comfort and connection to those you leave behind. Whether you're just beginning to think about your ceremony or already have some ideas in mind, I am here to guide you through the process.
When you feel ready, we can schedule a meeting to discuss the type of service you envision. I want to hear your story – your favourite moments, cherished memories, from your formative years to your notable achievements, hobbies, and family life. If desired, we can include readings or poetry that hold special meaning, read by someone dear to you. I will assist you in selecting music, readings, poems, or any other personalised elements you desire.
Together, we will craft a ceremony that authentically and meaningfully celebrates the unique tapestry of your life. Every ceremony is unique and personal, and by planning it yourself, you ensure it is a true reflection of who you are.
Feel free to contact me if you have any questions or would like to explore how we can craft a thoughtful funeral script that truly reflects you and honours your life beautifully.